This is not about the timings, I tried different things and this is what I could get stable, I could push for more but i like balance of efficiency, speed and stability.

However, the timings and voltages in the first picture crashed 2 hours into tm5 twice, so i loosened primaries timings but tCL down by 1 and increased VDDIO from 1,2 to 1,25 voltage, it was then passing 12 hours of tm5, 12 hours of karhu and 12 hours of ycruncher.

While I could test over and over again, I wanted to ask what you guys suspect causing the error, too tight timing with too less VDD? Not enough VDDIO? (Readings from Asus Board is wrong, correct amount is 1,2v VDDIO in the first picture and 1,25v in the second.

Also need to mention its a Micron D Die 6000CL36-38-38-72, was 35 tRCD just too much for this shit die? Also read that tRP has to be min tCL + 4, otherwise tm5 can throw errors, is that true? I didnt test the setting in other test after tm5 error.

latency in picture 1 was 60.8 while second was 61.4 not even sure if its even worth to push further for 0.6ns

Any advice would be appreciated, I just wanna know where i went wrong before doing days of stress testing again.