I kept hitting roadblocks overclocking my RAM in the BIOS, and it turned out Ryzen Master was overriding any settings I was making in the BIOS, particularly what I show in my screenshot labeled with the "M". It turned out it kept pulling settings from my old CL36 RAM until I started modifying these particular things in Ryzen Master. So far, it's been running stable after 2 hours tested in TM5. I also happen to have an overclock on my 9700X, which among other settings has +100 power and -20 all core.
Is there anything else I'm missing or another way I should approach this?